Why do some people get over breakups like they are nothing and others it impacts them for a long time?

2022.01.18 00:28 Sadsap101 Why do some people get over breakups like they are nothing and others it impacts them for a long time?

I’m right now still crying over a man who showed he didn’t care about me much after 3 years. I don’t get why it’s hard for me to let go but it was nothing for him
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2022.01.18 00:28 54infamous54 Brand new to collecting , first NBA box

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2022.01.18 00:28 Prestigious-Ad-9991 How to find a therapist who will actually effing understand it? (VCUG PTSD)

I posted most of my story here if anyone wants to read it before (TW): https://www.reddit.com/adultsurvivors/comments/s5mnbk/idk_what_this_is_was_this_abuse/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Some additions to the story I want to add: I was very sexually perverted at a young age, I would make my toys give birth, I even once when playing doctor I pretended to do a VCUG on a friend (clothes were on and I didn’t touch them anywhere private thank god, just a bunch of “imagining” and moving my hands a foot away from their body, still super creepy, and I can’t imagine how crazy my friend thought I was), when I learned what sex was I would pretend to f**k people online on games like club penguin, and just a bunch of nasty stuff.
Another thing that I left out was my condition now, ever since the procedure I have had bladder problems, however I believe (with good evidence) most of the problems are psychological. As it stands right now I can’t go to the restroom near anyone, not even in my own home if someone is home. I live with one other person and they have to leave the house entirely for me to be able to go. A few years ago I would spend 7-9 hours twice a day in the bathroom (absolutely not exaggerating) because I couldn’t stand any small urge to pee. That problem has been slightly settled, but I still can’t go in front of anyone and This has put a massive hold on my future. I can’t go to college, get a job I want, have kids, nothing with this problem. The thing is, I didn’t have this problem when I was younger, I also suppressed the memory of my ptsd back then too, and couldn’t really comprehend what even happened. These symptoms started really showing once these memories started coming back, even if the memories were not in the front of my mind. Everything makes sense now, the intense pain I feel if I can’t completely urinate or I have to pee is likely because that pain gives me some sort of flashbacks to how I felt that day and something in my subconscious brings me back to that.
This leads me here, My question here is how tf do I find a therapist that understands??? I’ve seen over a dozen and none seem to have any care or understanding of just how deeply this trauma has affected me, and have no idea about medical trauma (even though some even had it in their profiles 🤦‍♀️), a bunch just say the typical line “they’re doctors they were just trying to help”. When in reality I likely feel on par with a child sexual abuse victim, if not worse because medical abuse is trivialized a lot more (not a competition though, all trauma no matter what it’s from is trauma, just sharing my experience) even when I tell them straight out that it deeply effected my entire life, they just treat me like it’s surface level, and when I compare it to sexual abuse I get a look like I’m freaking nuts and just being dramatic (doesn’t help that I’m also a teenage girl, who are stereotypically dramatic), so they shrug t off and don’t offer anything supportive for me to work with. About five or six of the dozens of people I’ve seen I’ve visited a decent amount of times , enough for them to show their true colors and learn my whole history and show that, and none have.
I just have no idea how to find someone who actually cares and will actually help with these deep problems and not minimalise them. I need something more than a Psychology today search since thatst what n using for most I’ve tried and look how that’s turned out... so if anyone has any ideas please help me.
I’m also open to Christian counseling too if that opens more opportunities.
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2022.01.18 00:28 hawtsprings local shop to receive online order? (FFL)

hello, rip city:
Any recommendations in or near Portland for a shop to receive an online firearm purchase from MidwayUSA? I know I could call around, but I only have 5 days to find one and I'll be unavailable to work on this tomorrow. it's not NFA or silencer or anything exotic, just a waterfowl gun.
None of the dealers on Midway's website were 'participating' dealers willing to receive an order.
Sorry, somewhat new to all this ... the item I wanted was running out of stock so I placed the order without tying up this loose end.
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2022.01.18 00:28 goldfishgiggles There are rocking chairs at Miami International Airport

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2022.01.18 00:28 indiareef weekly discussion | 1.17.22 | alcohol

As we all know, alcohol is one of the most common causes of pancreatitis…if not the most common. And it suddenly becomes the biggest issue for almost all pancreatic patients even if you’re not dealing with alcohol-induced pancreatitis. So let’s chat about it!
Have you been struggling with the stigma of alcohol? Struggling avoiding it? Do you feel like you’re suddenly lonely and isolated? Do you miss it?
We get so many people coming to the group looking for help and advice. We see it a lot where people tell about how they live in an area with a large drinking culture and suddenly having to avoid it makes you feel like a pariah! And it’s so unfair across the board.
How do you cope? Have you replaced happy hour with something else? Do you still occasionally drink? How do you handle being questioned about alcohol use?
Please note: not every patient developed pancreatitis due to alcohol but that does not mean any patient is disregarded based on use. We are not here to perpetuate negative and harmful stereotypes. Please keep this conversation candid but respectful.
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2022.01.18 00:28 Pogchamp_Mcpoggers Someone pls explain how what he typed in is correct? I am immensely confused.

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2022.01.18 00:28 NuclearPanda47 Today is the 151st Anniversary of the Unification of the German Empire, Heil Kaiser Dir!

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2022.01.18 00:28 facebookmegf [help] I have downloaded gameseagull on sileo and it says There was an error loading the preference bundle for gameseagull

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2022.01.18 00:28 DirectorOk6926 whos better

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2022.01.18 00:28 Desyn_Lab #DeSyn Protocol Weekly News (Jan 10th - 16th)

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2022.01.18 00:28 23World got a new hot sauce tattoo

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2022.01.18 00:28 FallCompetitive7976 18-January I am still here

It is 18-January 03:28. I am contentment.
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2022.01.18 00:28 bubbly_b1txh734 If you could choose to name the 8th Deadly Sin, what would you choose?

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2022.01.18 00:28 Ok_Court_8786 Atleast we got to see something new after a long time

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2022.01.18 00:28 FilmYouGlad06 😳 not to make anyone jealous but it looks like bullseye just stopped by ✌️✌️✌️

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2022.01.18 00:28 AlbaRicci We Are Not Collateral Consequences: Children of Incarcerated Parents – Next100

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2022.01.18 00:28 SkipJacksLady Magical candy ice cream land #starryai

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2022.01.18 00:28 ImeWegrahah Grindset for sigma males

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2022.01.18 00:28 WelderFast2111 Do you guys think Ty Jerome is worth a late first round pick?

If not what/who would y’all want for him? Would y’all mind him being traded? With the emergence of Mann and the flashes he’s shown I could see OKC leaning more towards Tre for the foreseeable future. Just my 2 cents!
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2022.01.18 00:28 Pxrtlezz normalize playing playboi carti in school

Normalize playing playboy carti in school+ tyrone could suck my banana!!
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2022.01.18 00:28 toaster192 [PC][early 2000's] Top down 2D Shooter with destructible walls

Essentially each pixel of the walls could be destroyed, so you could "tunnel" around enemies with a shotgun or something.
I don't think there was any campaign or anything, just big customizable (as in several maps, amount of bots etc.) battles.
I don't really remember much other that there was the "Steyr AUG", some granades, the MP5... I believe the name was similar to "A.V.O.L." but google doesn't help whatsoever.
Was probably one of the indie games that you'd find on a CD from a gaming magazine at the time.
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